Iphupha malunga nokwabelana ngesondo lingahlala iliphupha elibi, lingabonisa imimoya emibi ejikeleze wena, ubomi bakho okanye kwindawo apho ulele khona. Oku kunokuba sisiphumo sesichitho esinzima esisetyenziselwa ukukuthakatha okanye ukushuywa kwemimoya engendawo kwindawo apho ukhoyo. Ke ngoko, ukulwa neli phupha kwaye ulungise ingxaki, ngakumbi ukuba iyaphinda rhoqo, kufuneka usebenzise inkqubo yakho yenkolelo. Oko kunokuba luncedo lwabaphilisi bemveli okanye umthandazo ukuba uyakholelwa kuThixo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafuneka liqatshelwe eli phupha, kuba uyinkwenkwe okanye intombazana eza kuba yindoda okanye umfazi, eli phupha luphawu lokukhula kwakho kunye nokufikelela ekufikiseni kuba ufikelela kwincopho yakho yokuqala yesondo ngaphambi kokuba uvuke, yindlela ongaqonda ngayo ukuba ungakwazi ukuba nabantwana kwaye unokuba ngumzali kwixesha elizayo.
