Ukuba uphupha umntwana, kwaye uyintombi enyulu, unokulingwa ukuba ulale nomntu ongafanelekanga. Ukuba ubona umntwana emaphupheni akho kwaye ulele emadolweni akhe, unokuba nendwendwe kungekudala. Ukuba umntwana uyahlaba ngelixa umbamba, kungabonakala unethamsanqa ukuba uhlala ucocekile kodwa unelishwa ukuba liyakukhathaza.