Ukuba uphupha iziqhamo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kunokuthetha ukuba isihlobo sakho okanye umhlobo wakho ukhulelwe. Ukuba uphupha usitya iziqhamo, oko kungathetha ukuba nguwe onokuthi ukhulelwe okanye usenokuba sele ukhulelwe. Kwakhona, ukuba uphupha uqubha emanzini amdaka okanye emanzini anodaka kwaye urhaxwe kuwo, oku kungabonisa ukuba ukhulelwe. Ukongeza, ukuba uphupha ukhulelwe, oko kunokuthetha ukuba ngenye imini uya kuba namawele, ngakumbi xa uphinda uwaphupha.
Amaphupha omnye umntu ekhulelwe
Ukuba uphupha omnye umntu ekhulelwe ingaluphawu lokuba kukho into okanye izinto ezizezakho ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa zisezandleni zomnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, kungekudala ezo zinto zifanele zibe sezandleni zomntu ofanelekileyo. Isenokuba yinto oyifumene njengelifa okanye into ophulukene nayo kwixesha elidlulileyo. Isenokuba sisithuba sengqesho esinikwe omnye umntu ngendlela engafanelekanga enokuthi ityhilwe, aze abuyele kuwe.