Ukuba uphupha utshatile, oku kunokuthetha ukuba kuya kubakho ingozi okanye ukufa ebomini bakho kungekudala. Ukuba omnye wabantu uyagula okanye ukhubazekile ephupheni lakho, oko kunokuthetha umtshato ongonwabisiyo kuwe.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumsesane wakho womtshato, oko kunokuthetha ukuba awusamthandi umyeni okanye umfazi wakho.
Ukuba uphupha ungumtshakazi, umyeni okanye umtshakazi, oko kunokuthetha ibhadi kwaye uya kujongana nosizi kunye neenyembezi kungekudala. Unokulwa neqabane lakho kwaye ubudlelwane bakho bokuhlala.
Ukuba uphupha uphuza okanye usamanga iqabane lakho, kunokuthetha ilishwa kubudlelwane bakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungumntu olungileyo, ke unethamsanqa kwaye kunokuthetha ukuba umntu uya kukunceda akukhuphe engxakini kungekudala.
Ukuba iqabane lakho liyakushiya ephupheni lakho, oko kunokuthetha ukuba umntu okunye naye uya kuthembeka kuwe.
Ukuba uphupha uphethe isipho somtshakazi, oko kunokuthetha ukuba uza kutshata kungekudala. Noko ke, ukuba uyisilahla okanye usilahlile, oko kusenokuthetha ukuba ngenye imini uya kuqhawula umtshato.
Nangona xa sihleli singalelanga umtshato iyinto entle kunye nethamsanqa. Xa sikubona silele kubalibhadi kwaye kwayanyaniswa kakhulu nokufa. Ukuba uphupha utshata lilishwa elo ingakumbi emadodeni. Kuthetha ukuba kuya kubakho amaxesha anzima ebomini bakho kungekudala. Kwakhona ukuba uphupha omnye wabantu ephupheni lakho egula okanye ekhubazekile, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakuba nomtshato ongonwabanga. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuphupha utshata kunokubonisa umnqweno wakho womtshato …