Ukuba unomsindo ephupheni lakho, amaxesha amaninzi kudla ngokuthetha ukuba kukho ilishwa kwikamva lakho. Ukuba ucaphukile nje, oko kuthetha ukuba kungekudala ungafumana iindaba ezimbi. Kodwa ukuba ucatshukiswe nyani ngumntu ngoko ungabethwa ngookhuphisana nabo. Ukuba unomsindo ngenxa yokuba umntu ekuthukile, usenokuxabana neqabane lakho okanye kwishishini lakho.
Ukuba uvuya kakhulu ephupheni lakho, kunokuthetha ukuba kukho umntu unokukukhohlisa ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kufuneka uqaphele abantu ocinga ukuba unokuthembela kubo. Ukuba wonwabile kuba ubhiyozela into ethile, oko kungathetha ukuba unokuphumelela kule nto uyenzayo. Kusenokuthetha ukuba kungekudala uya kulufumana uthando ukuba wonwabe ngokukhethekileyo.
Ukuba uphupha unomona ngomnye umntu, oko kungathetha ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bunokubandezeleka ekuhambeni kwexesha. Isenokuba bubudlelwane bakho nabanye abantu okanye ukholo lwakho.
Ukuba unesizungu ephupheni lakho, kwaye awunabo abahlobo abakujikelezileyo, oko kungathetha ukuba unokumenywa ngokukhawuleza kumaqela amaninzi kunye neziganeko.
Ukuba uphupha usemathandweni, oko kuthetha ithamsanqa kwikamva lakho. Ukuba uphupha ngokuthanda abahlobo bakho, oko kuthetha ukuba unokuphumelela ebomini. Nokuba uphupha ukuba awonwabanga eluthandweni, oko kunokuthetha umtshato owonwabileyo kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba uphupha ulusizi ngokwenene olu ingaluphawu oluhle. Kungathetha ukuba unganethamsanqa kwixesha elizayo kwaye kufuneka ube nezinto ezintle eziza ngendlela yakho.
Ukuba uphupha abantu benovelwano ngawe ngenxa yokuba kukho into embi ekwehleleyo, oko kungathetha ukuba kukho izinto ezintle eziza kuwe. Ungalufumana uthando kubudlelwane bakho kunye nempumelelo kulo naluphi na ukhuphiswano okulo ngoku.
Ukuba unxaniwe ephupheni lakho, linokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba unxaniwe nje, usenokugula kungekudala. Ukuba unxaniwe kwaye usela amanzi, ingaluphawu oluhle olunokwenzeka lwekamva lakho ukuba amanzi acocekile kanti ingaluphawu olubi ukuba amanzi amdaka.
Amaphupha amanzi amdaka kubonisa iimeko ezimbi okanye ezingaqinisekanga ekufuneka uhlale uphaphile kuzo. Ukusela amanzi angcolileyo kunokubonisa ukuba isiqalo esitsha okanye isiqalo esitsha sinokuba sengozini okanye sele sisengozini. Oku kunokukushiya uziva uhluthwe ithuba lokwenza uphuculo okanye inkqubela phambili. Amaphupha ngamanzi amdaka kunye nezikhukula kubonisa ukuba wena, okanye umntu osondeleyo kuwe, unokukhulelwa. Ukuba uphupha uqubha emanzini amdaka, ubone umntwana …
Ukuba uphupha umntu ekunika impahla endala okanye ehlamba impahla yakhe endala, kwaye lamanzi ohlamba kuwo amdaka kwaye etyhalela impahla emdaka ngakuwe, oku kunokuba lilishwa kwaye kukho umntu ozisa ubumnyama ekhayeni lakho.