Ukuba uphupha isibhakabhaka, ingahlala ingumqondiso olungileyo. Isibhakabhaka esicacileyo nesikhanyayo sinokuthetha ukuba uya kuba nobomi obunoxolo nolonwabo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba inamafu kwaye imnyama, inokuba sisilumkiso sokuba kufuneka ulumke.
Ukuba uphupha ngomkhenkce, intsingiselo inokuxhomekeka ekubeni ungubani. Kubalimi, kunokuthetha ithamsanqa kunye nokuvuna okungalunganga, kodwa kwabathandanayo, kunokuthetha umtshato kunye nolonwabo.
Ukuba uphupha umnyama, kunokuba luphawu lwezinto ezintle eziza ebomini bakho. Mhlawumbi uya kuphumelela nangakumbi ebomini.
Ukuba uphupha ngeenkwenkwezi, oko kunokuthetha ukuba uya kuba nothando oluninzi ebomini bakho kwaye ufumane iindaba ezimnandi kwindawo ongayilindelanga.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba ilanga likhanya ngokuqaqambileyo, oko kunokuthetha ukuba uya kufunda into entsha enokutshintsha ubomi bakho bube ngcono. Ukuba ukwindawo emnyama, kodwa unokubona ukukhanya kumgama, kunokubonisa ukuba okwangoku ujongene nengxaki ebomini bakho, kodwa uya kuyoyisa kungekudala.Ukuba uphupha ilanga likhanya ngokuqaqambileyo, oko kunokuthetha ukuba uya kukufunda into entsha enokutshintsha ubomi bakho bube ngcono.
Ukuba uphupha ubona ukukhanya, inokuba ziindaba ezilungileyo xa iqhubeka nokukhanya kuwe. Emva koko, uya kuvuya, kwaye uyakukujonga iqabane lakho, kwaye uya kuba nentlahla. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukukhanya kuyacima, kwaye awazi ukuba kutheni, kunokuthetha ukuba kuya kubakho ingxaki emsebenzini.
Kungathetha ukuthini ukuva iindudumo zigqutha ephupheni lakho? Ukuva iindudumo ngelixa uphuphayo kungathetha ukudubuleka ngumsindo okanye ubundlongondlongo obukhoyo ngaphakathi kuwe. Okunye kusenokusebenza njengophaphanyiswa ngendlela evakalayo nebonisa ukuba kufuneka unike ingqalelo inkalo ethile ebomini bakho njengoko kukho isifundo esibalulekileyo sobomi ekufuneka usifundile kuyo. Ukuba uphuphe uzifihlile kwiindudumo, uzimela apho ungevayo khona (ekhabhathini okanye ngaphantsi kwebhedi) okanye uvulela …
Amaphupha angemvula ohlukahlukene kwaye akukho lula ukuwacacisa. Isimo sezulu esinezaqhwithi sinokuthi sibonakalise ukungavisisani kunye nomsindo. Ukukhanya kwelanga kubonakalisa uvuyo kunye nethemba (okanye ukufika koku ebomini bakho). Ngelixa imvula inokuba luphawu lweenyembezi kodwa isenokubonisa ukuhlaziyeka emphefumlweni. Intsingiselo yokuphupha imvula ixhomekeke kakhulu kumandla kunye nobude bayo. Imvula eqhelekileyo inokubonisa ukuba kukho into esendleleni eya kuwe inokuba sisipho, kodwa …