Ukuba uphupha ungumtshakazi, umyeni okanye umtshakazi, oko kunokuthetha ibhadi kwaye uya kujongana nosizi kunye neenyembezi kungekudala. Unokulwa neqabane lakho kwaye ubudlelwane bakho bokuhlala.
Ukuba uphupha ubetha umyeni okanye umfazi wakho, intombi okanye isoka, kunokuthetha ilishwa.
Ukuba uphupha umntu omthandayo efuna ukuqhawula umtshato, kunokuba luphawu oluhle. Kunokuthetha ukuba banyanisekile kwaye bavulekile kunye nawe.
Ukuba uphupha isindululo, oko kunokuthetha ukuba abantu bayakuqonda kwaye baya kuba ngabalungile kuwe.
Ukuba uphupha unamadoda okanye abafazi abaninzi,oku kunokuthetha ukuba ikhaya lakho liya konwaba kwaye lifudumele kwaye usapho lwakho luya kuphumelela.
Iphupha malunga nokwabelana ngesondo lingahlala iliphupha elibi, lingabonisa imimoya emibi ejikeleze wena, ubomi bakho okanye kwindawo apho ulele khona. Oku kunokuba sisiphumo sesichitho esinzima esisetyenziselwa ukukuthakatha okanye ukushuywa kwemimoya engendawo kwindawo apho ukhoyo. Ke ngoko, ukulwa neli phupha kwaye ulungise ingxaki, ngakumbi ukuba iyaphinda rhoqo, kufuneka usebenzise inkqubo yakho yenkolelo. Oko kunokuba luncedo lwabaphilisi bemveli …
Ukuba uphupha utshatile, oku kunokuthetha ukuba kuya kubakho ingozi okanye ukufa ebomini bakho kungekudala. Ukuba omnye wabantu uyagula okanye ukhubazekile ephupheni lakho, oko kunokuthetha umtshato ongonwabisiyo kuwe.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumsesane wakho womtshato, oko kunokuthetha ukuba awusamthandi umyeni okanye umfazi wakho.
Ukuba uphupha uphuza okanye usamanga iqabane lakho, kunokuthetha ilishwa kubudlelwane bakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungumntu olungileyo, ke unethamsanqa kwaye kunokuthetha ukuba umntu uya kukunceda akukhuphe engxakini kungekudala.
Ukuba uphupha umntwana, kwaye uyintombi enyulu, unokulingwa ukuba ulale nomntu ongafanelekanga. Ukuba ubona umntwana emaphupheni akho kwaye ulele emadolweni akhe, unokuba nendwendwe kungekudala. Ukuba umntwana uyahlaba ngelixa umbamba, kungabonakala unethamsanqa ukuba uhlala ucocekile kodwa unelishwa ukuba liyakukhathaza.