Ukuba uphupha umntu ekugibisela ngamatye okanye ekuleqa ngamatye. Kulungile ukuba uyaziphepha kwaye uvuke ngaphambi kokuba zikwazi ukukubetha. Kunokuba yingozi ukuba bakubethe njengoko kunokuthetha ukuba kukho umntu onokukuthakathayo ngelitye, uthetha nelitye.
Ukuba uphupha usilwa notshaba lwakho okanye lukuqunusele, oku kunokuthetha ukuba ukutshisile. Kodwa ukuba uphupha umbetha de umoyise, uya kuba umoyisile kuzo zonke izenzo zakhe ezimbi kunye neenjongo zakhe. Ukuba uphupha usilwa nomntu okoyisayo, intsingiselo iya kukuxhomekeka kwisini salowo ulwa naye. Ukuba uyindoda woyisiwe ngumfazi okanye ungumfazi woyiswa yindoda, ulwa nesilwanyana somoya, kwaye isini sesilwanyana sichasene …
Ukuba uphupha unomicimbi, oko kunokuthetha ukuba uya kuphazamiseka ngentliziyo kwaye unethamsanqa eluthandweni.