Utolikwa kwamaphupha yinkalo ebalulekileyo kwisiNtu sakwaXhosa. Ummandla welemimoya yinxalenye ephilayo yobomi loluntu oluninzi e-Afrika, kwaye abantu bakwaXhosa amaphupha abo athungelana kweli lizwe. Iintsingiselo nophawu olwenza amaphupha akwaXhosa ziye zavela ngokwahlukile kakhulu kwimpawu zaseNtshona kwaye zenza inkqubo yokutolika evuselelayo nenesondlo.
KwisiNtu sakwaXhosa, amaphupha anika imvume abo baphilayo banxulumane nezinyanya, kwaye nazo ngokunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha anikeza impendulo kwizinto abantu abaye bazithandazeka okanye bacele uncedo ekuzisombululeni, kodwa ziyakwazi uvele zizenzekele nje ukubanika umkhomba-ndlela ebomini woluntu. Amanye amaphupha athe ngqo, kwaye ayakwazi ukutolikwa ngumphuphi, kodwa amaphupha antsokothileyo nangaqondakaliyo anokufuna uncedo lwenyangi ukuwaqonda. Oku kuye kunxulumane ngakumbi xa iphupho lidibanisa izenzo zabanye abantu, okanye lifuna umphuphi enze into ukungxengxeza okanye ukukhonze izinyanya.
Kubantu bakwaXhosa, uxa iphupho okanye iphawu limane livela, ibaluleka ngakumbi into yokuyiqonda okanye kuthathwe amanyathelo kuyo. Uphupha into kanye ayinikwa ngqalelo, kodwa ukuba iphupho liyaphinda-phinda okanye livela licace gca, Ifanele itolikwe kwaye kuthathwa amanyathelo.
Indlela yokusebenzisa amanqaku amaphupha kule webhusayithi
Le webhusayithi iqulathe isikhokelo esibanzi kwiimpawu zamaphupha ezahlukeneyo, zohlulwe ngokweendidi ezibanzi: Umzimba, abanye abantu kwakunye nelizwe. Ezi zandule zahlulwa ngamacandelo athi angqale ngqo kumxholo othile, kwaye zinceda abafundi bahlole imixholo eyohlukeneyo kwakunye notoliko olufanelekileyo olunokubandakanyeka.
Kubalekile ukuqonda ukuba ilizwe lwemimoya lwasoloko liyimfihlakalo kwaye kunzima ukuqonda ngeliso labo baphilayo. Iintsingiselo eziqokelelwe kule webhusayithi zezona zixhaphakileyo ekutolikeni iimpawu kodwa ziyakwazi ukuba zezenginqi, iiyantlukwano zosapho nezomntu. Ukuchitha ixesha uwaqonda kwaye ubonisane nabantu abafundileyo kuya kukunceda uqonde iintsingiselo ezithile ebomini bakho ukuba ziyahluka kwiingcaciso eziqhelekileyo.
Xa ufunda ezi ngcaciso, khumbula ukuba iintsingiselo zamaphupha nazo aziqwetywanga. Iintsingiselo ezikule webhusayithi inokuba yeyoqobo kunye neyozekeliso/ukweko. Amaphupha sisixhobo sokuqonda ubomi, hayi ukuqikelela ingomso ngokuchaneka okupheleleyo, kwaye kufuneka kuthathwe njenge sikhokhelo esiza kusetyenziswa nengqondo yakho eqhelekileyo kwakunye nothuku.