Kuphupha ngemali kusho kuba nemandla ekufeza tinjongo takho nobe kufinyelela imigomo yakho. Imigomo yakho ingahlobana nengcondvo, imiva nobe kufinyelela esigabeni lapho uphila khona indlela yekuphila loyifunako. Uyakhona kucabanga, kutiva futsi wente nobe yini lokufunako emphilweni. Imali ingakhombisa emandla. Ngendlela lekahle, imali imelela ematfuba, emandla kanye nekutiva uciniseka ngemandla akho ekwenta lokutsite. Ngakulolunye luhlangotsi lolungakalungi, imali …
Uma uphupha bantfu labafile, kuvame kusho tintfo letimbi kuwe. Uma ubabona sebavukile baphila futsi, kungasho kutsi kunenkinga letitako endleleni yakho. Nangabe bahlobene nawe, kungase kusho kutsi kufanele uyekele kwenta tintfo letimbi ngobe utawungena enkingeni. Nawuphupha umuntfu lomatiko lofile akubite nobe akutjela kutsi uyaphila kungasho kutsi loyo muntfu utsetjulwe batsakatsi bamenta umkhovu wabo, kufanele utfole inyanga …
Uma uphupha tinkhomo noma ematfole, inchazelo iya ngekutsi uyatelusa noma cha. Uma utibona emadlelweni, noma utilusa, kungasho imphumelelo kanye nenhlanhla yelikusasa lakho. Nobe kunjalo, nangabe tikugijimisa nobe tikujaka, kungase kusho kutsi titsa takho tiyakutsakatsa futsi utawuhlulwa ngito. Kuhlala kutsatfwa njengenhlanhla lembi kuphupha inkhomo lemnyama, futsi kungasho tinkinga emsebentini wakho noma ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Emaphupho lamayelana nenhlanhla lembi avame kungadzingi kuhunyushwa nobe kuchazwa njengoba acondzile – lokwenteka ephusheni ngiko lokungenteka mbamba. Kodvwa ngemaphupho ebusuku bokhokho bakho bakukhombisa kutsi kunetintfo letinhle naletimbi letingenteka, nobe letisetakwenteka. Emaphupho abalulekile, ungawakhohlwa uma uvuka wati kutsi ungawahumusha njani. Uma ungakhoni kutihumusha buta labadzala ngoba kungenteka kutsi kukhona lokutjelwa madloti akini. Tindzawo Letimnyama neKulandzelwa Uma …
Uma uphupha ushaya noma ulwa nemuntfu, ungahle uhlangabetane nesimo lesiletsa nemahloni nekujabha empilweni yakho noma buhlobo lobungaphumeleli nalophilisana nabo nalabo losebentisana nabo kanjalo. Nangabe lomunye umuntfu akushaya wena utivikela nje ungaphindziseli, ungahle uvelelwa simo lesiletsa emahloni ngenca yekutsi umuntfu uyakuhleba. Leliphupho lingaphindze lecwayise kutsi kukhona lokugadlako ngemitsi yesintfu nebutsakatsi.
Uma uphupha ushada kungaba yinhlanhla lembi, ikakhulukati emadvodzeni. Kungasho kutsi kutawuba nengoti nobe kufa empilweni yakho lokusondzele nobe lokucondzene nalohlobene nabo. Uma lomunye walabantfu agula noma akhubatekile ephusheni lakho, kungasho umshado longajabulisi kuwe. Leliphupho lingasho inhlanhla kuphela nangabe wesifazane ashada nelikhehla.
Uma uphupha upheka bhiya, kungasho kutsi utawuvakashelwa ngumuntfu lobuya khashane. Leliphupho lingaphindze lisho kutsi bogogomkhulu bakunika umlayeto wemsenti tsite wesintfu lodzinga kuwenta kute uchumane nabo ikakhulukati nawuphuphe tjwala besintfu. Nangabe unatsa bhiya ebhaleni nobe e-tavern, kungasikisela kutsi wente sitsa ungakacapheli.
Uma uphupha emacandza, kungasho kutsi utawuphumelela emsebentini nobe esikolweni. Nobe kunjalo, nangabe lamacandza abolile, kungase kusho kutsi kungaba netinkinga ekuphileni kwakho. Uma emacandza asesimeni lesihle, kungasho kutsi utawuphumelela etinhlelweni takho.
Kuphupha ngetinwele takho, kungasho tintfo letinyenti letehlukene. Uma ngabe uphupha tinwele takho nje todvwa, ungatfola lutsandvo nobe budlelwane emphilweni yakho kepha lowo muntfu angaphindze atsandze lomunye umuntfu. Ngesintfu kuphupha tinwele kungasho emandla akho ekufinyelela emphumelelweni yelikusasa lakho. Kushintjashintja kweTinwele Kuphupha ukama tinwele takho, kungasho kutsi utawulahlekelwa yintfo lebalulekile, kantsi kushintja nobe kupenda umbala wetinwele takho …
Inchazelo yekuphupha imvula incike kakhulu emandleni ayo kanye nesikhatsi sayo. Imvula lejwayelekile ingakhombisa kutsi kukhona lokusendleleni lokuta kuwe – kungaba sipho, kepha kungaba yintfo lembi njengekugula. Siphepho singakhombisa tinkinga nobe kugula esikhatsini lesitako, futsi ungabhekana nekukhohliswa ngumuntfu nekungajabuli emphilweni yakho. Nanobe kunjalo, ngekuhlakanipha, ungahle uphumelele ekugcineni. Uma uphupha imvula seyiphelile futsi lilanga seliphumile, kungasho inhlanhla …