- Ukuqala ngelihlo lokutheza: kungabi nomusa uqalele abantu phasi begodu ubanyaze ngombana wena uzibona ungehla kwabo ngezinga, bese uthoma ubaphatha kumbi kumbi awubabekezeleli ubalalisela amehlo ngabomu.
- Ukukhwela phezukwendlu njengenja: akahloniphi begodu akanamusa ebantwini nabathi benza okuthize awukhulumi nabo kuhle uyabanyefula nofana ukhulume amagama alumelako ubazwise ubuhlungu ngombana udinekile.