Ibhudango ngokuya emsemeni livame ukuba libhudango elimbi, okutjengisa bona kunemiMoya emimbi ehlangana nawe, epilwenakho nofana endaweni olala kiyo. Lokhu kungabangelwa buthakathi obuqinileko ophoswe ngabo nofana imiMoya emimbi etjhiyeke endaweni olala kiyo. Yeke-ke, ukulwa nebhudangweli bese ulungise umraro loyo kuyinto ekufanele uyenze, khulukhulu nangabe libuya kanengi, kufanele usebenzise ikolo yakho. Isizo ungalifunyana ebelapheni bendabuko nofana kuMthandazi nangabe ukholelwa kuZimu.
Yeke-ke, kufanele kuthathelwe ehloko ukuthi umsana nofana itlawana elizokungena esigabeni sokuba lisokana nofana mntazana kuvamile bona babe nawo, ngombana ibhudangweli kungaba liphawu lokukhula njengombana uthunda kokuthoma ngaphamb’ kokuthi uvuke, okukukuthi ubona ukuthi uzokukghona ukuba nabantwana nokuba mbelethi engomuseni lakho.