Imiraro neenqunto
Ukubhudanga udakiwe kungatjho bona uqalane nemiraro neentjhijilo obhalelwa kuzihlula begodu uyabhalelwa nofana awukghoni ukuzisombulula. Kungaba liphawu lokuthi udinga ukuhlola iinqunto zaphambilini ezingenza bona zikukhandele ukuthi uhlale phasi bese uzijamele, okungikho okungenza bona kube budisi ukuthi uphumelele. Ungatlhaga bewuthwale imithwalo yokwenza iinqunto ezingakalungi ebezibonakala kwangathi zilungile ngalesa s’khathi.
Umthelela wabanye
Ibhudangweli liphawu lokuthi ulise ukuledlha nokuvumela abantu abangakalungi balawule bebabe nomthelela kuwe epilweni. Nangabe awuqapheli uzokwenza izinto ezinganayo inzuzo, ezizokonela ikusasa lakho begodu ubanjwe kukona, ugcine sewusidlhayela esonweni.
Imiraro yomuntu mathupa
Ukudakwa ebhudangweni kungatjho bona uzokuthatha isiqunto esikhulu esingamukelekiko esizokuhlambalaza phamb’ kwabantu. Lingaphakamisa ukuthi usidlhayela esingaqabangisisi kuhle. Ibhudangweli lingaveza ukuthi uzungezwe buhlungu nomtlhago kodwana abanye abantu abakuzwisisi lokho.